The truth vs Feeling good
Really, this is a question that I sometimes ask to myself. In the case that I have to choose between say the truth or say a lie to make feel good to the other person, is dificult for me, so, to choose what I will to say, I have to be empathethic, think how I would feel in both cases. Sincerely, I prefer to hear the truth despite that hurt me.
The truth is the only solution to avoid all the problems. The people prefer to listen the truth in the moment, not found out it in other moment by another person. When it happens, the feeling is so sad, personally, I feel very angry with the person who had to say me the truth. For example, in the case that my girlfriend kiss to another man and I didn't know that, I would prefer to hear the truth, that she told me, not that another person told me in other moment.
So, always we have to go with the truth ahead, to avoid problems and probably lose the confidence of the people.




